Denial

When people broke up, who should be blame?
Is it always third party?
Can't it be the feeling faded?
Why it always have to hard during the misunderstanding period?
Can't it be much more easier?

Why should it be a party fault?
Is it too hard to let the another party understand?
That is both?

Why the party can compromise with the ex and not the current who just break up with?
Is that fair?
Or nothing is fair?

Really wonders.

Ended.

Words

There's time, words can't be said.
There's time, feelings can't be express.
There's time, ignorance hurts.
There's time, facts kill.

Understand the needs, is an understanding of a person.
Understand the wants, is an understanding of the needs.

How far could a person goes?
How far can a feelings hide?
How far can a love remains?

Whichever words that been typed,
Truthly from heart.

Or maybe not?

Unleashed

Sometimes, when we see or known certain people who are seeing someone else especially that person, already having somebody else, a third party.
People sees them as a cheap bitch,or whore.
But the person herself/himself sees themself, worst than you thought.

Imagine that, you are spending time with your "partner" having a nice meal by the river, suddenly interupted by phone calls of your "partner" and it's from the wife.
Walking together at a mall, and you yourself been walking round the mall 2-3rounds and your partner was busy getting gift for THE WIFE. How would the feelings goes?

From the view you looking at your partner happily choosing gift for THE WIFE, the quilt of being a bitch does really pop-out. Pist off? Jealous? Whatever the feelings is, the partner does luv the wife, they do luv each other, just that denial.

Now, truly understand.
Being third party sucks.

Understand The Facts

There's times that age was a gap.. sometimes not.
Sometimes when we see old man holding hugging and smooching a young gal, we'll think...
Is the old man rich? Too loaded? The girl so cheap? Or,is there really love in between?
Or how about young man with an old... maybe too mature for them ladies?
Sugar mummy or sugar daddy then?
I did came across an old man who's damn good with words, believe me it's such a creep.
Are they out of love?

Sometimes, rejection is hard to be say and hard to be accept...
Will there still a friendship in between the two persons or cause of embaressment of rejection, the friendship ends?
Having feelings towards a person, there's not always a result which satisfy that person heart, but sometimes facts... hurt.

How could a person dare enough to reject on FEELINGS?
Bare with it or just forget it?
Can somebody figure on how should they walk on their life?
Who's the sunshine of theirs?
Who's the cause of the gloomy days of theirs then?

Nothing can fight the feelings, true.
But there's always a way, to deny.
Time will pass, things will turn in another path.
Whichever is GOOD now, keep it.
As you won't know your next step what's the concequences.
Do not regret over the things which done.
Learn from it.

~Bless~

One Stone hit Two Birds

Shouldn't that having a committed relationship,shall be just one?
How about the one that having two at the same time?
Wouldn't know who to let go, wouldn't know should or should not let go instead.

Stepping on two boats, always a big NONO for anyone...
But when it caught on them that moment, how will that person handle?
Shall it be ignore or shall it be continue, or even just go with the flow?

It's bad.
Not fair for any side either.

And choice should be make.

Nyonya Baba a.k.a Dragon King, Penang

During Mother's Day, my whole family went to Dragon King for lunch...
It's been estabilished since 1976...
They served most of Penang Nyonya Food and also, how often you go to a place the waitress are as old as your grannies???


Even the menu, still using during the old days...as you can see the telephone number stated in the menu is 5 digits!!! Now already 7 digits in Penang.
For the food, it's yummy... Nyonya Food!!!

Assam Prawn
Duck Meat with Salted Vegetable in Tu Kar Soup
Ichy Kaybin
Sambal Kangkung
My Whole Meal

Even the table settings are unique, not only can be seen in Malacca though ^_^

The Interior, the hanging light

Table Setting
The Tea Cups
Wine Holder

However, it's quite limited tables in the restaurant...
As well as, it's a good experience over there as well...
Having a quite lunch was AWESOME!

Something Stupid

To develop an everlasting relationship, what's the ingredients?
What's the method?
Sometimes... flipping thru the newspapers or even magazines...
There's always cases of either divorce, fights even murdering...
(No idea about OJ Simpson though...)

So how to make the relationship, forever and ever?
Recently I went and watch ENCHANTED...
Well, just like when we were kids, all the singings, birds, love here and there and DRAMA in the middle and happy ending at last...
So to us, as we know it's just a fairytale, it's just a cartoon... just a movie with scripts.

Are our lives being, directed?
Or should we direct our own life instead?
The man/woman right beside you in this moment, is he/she the one for you?
For sure? How sure are you then?
Who can guarantee that it'll last forever?

As like Robbie Williams and Nicole Kidman sung, "by saying something stupid like I LOVE YOU..."
Is it stupid to say the 3 magic words?
Or like Micheal Wong's Fairytale,"wo yao bian chen tung hua li na ge tian shi...." Be the angel like in the fairytale, spread my wings to protect you...
Is there anyone could do that?

Do we need to compare for seeking happiness?
Is it necessary then?

Look along the road, the highway...
Look at the hills and mountains...
Look up the skies and clouds....

You'll never see anything which will look the same...
Never will have a straight road without holes and bumps...