Sometimes, when we see or known certain people who are seeing someone else especially that person, already having somebody else, a third party.
People sees them as a cheap bitch,or whore.
But the person herself/himself sees themself, worst than you thought.
Imagine that, you are spending time with your "partner" having a nice meal by the river, suddenly interupted by phone calls of your "partner" and it's from the wife.
Walking together at a mall, and you yourself been walking round the mall 2-3rounds and your partner was busy getting gift for THE WIFE. How would the feelings goes?
From the view you looking at your partner happily choosing gift for THE WIFE, the quilt of being a bitch does really pop-out. Pist off? Jealous? Whatever the feelings is, the partner does luv the wife, they do luv each other, just that denial.
Now, truly understand.
Being third party sucks.
2 comments:
being 3rd party definitely is sucks!! the fact is.. can u control ur feelings towards him/her? how good can u control?? for me.. not good at all.
Love is always BLIND! Do you agree? Dare you disagree then? Are you a third party? Were you?
I never look down on third party before, maybe i do have a few "bitch" as my close friends and i do know their path is not easy. Always thought i do understand them and can put myself into their shoes... Till the day when you have your own experience!!! Then you will know how sour can it be.
Kinda agree, feelings is something really can kill! The most powerful silence killer in the world. If there is a choice, i rather be a bitch, who willingly to be a third party for the sick of money or material rather than because of love!
Is it worth? Can the joy, the happiness overcome the fear of insecure, the unforeseen future? Only god knows! I am not saint, i'm not able to control my own feeling too! But i am an educated adult at least i know how to control my behavior?
Loving someone is never a sin, human can't control their feeling is normal but hurting someone you have filling toward is definitely a big NO,NO! Learning to control your feeling is hard but there is always a time to stop? Or at the very least learn to respect people's will...
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