爱好月圆

I watched a Chinese drama recently :家好月圆:
I'm not the type of person who will watch the soap drama and sit there quietly as well...
To the extend, I watched the ending instead of following the stories...
However...
I catched a line while I was watching that drama...

It was about a mother who's daughter is seeing another guy ,who,at the same time have a girlfriend of 7 years...
The mother asked the guy a question which interest me...pretty much...
"I understand you have a girlfriend and she helped you a lot..However,you still be with your girlfriend, is because the existance of love or is it because you'll afraid of owing her more?"

The sentences really strike me as I got a close to the heart friend "sort of" in the situation...
However, she told me she do love and care for her partner...
At the same time, she told me she owed her partner a lot last time...
Which one supposed to be the reason?
Is there a valid reason to love someone or be with someone for life?

Be in a relationship because of love...
It's the thing which everyone seek...
But to be in a relationship because of "debts",payment of love...
Will the relationship happy?
Or will the person be happy?

Certain situation no outsider can't see or understand...
That's the fact.
But to see the person happy or not, an outsider could sense and see...
However, they got no right to judge or have a say...
In the end of the day the person who in that situation, will find her way.

So what can an outsider do?
Advise?
Counsel?
"Why wanna be so stupid repay your partner in this way?!"
Why should I say more?
No reason for doing that.

Even being a close friend...
No matter what topics we talk about even love...
I would want my friend to have and gain happiness.

Fireworks could catch my smile...
I would like to see the sparks and smile which I long time did not see...
Which could catch my heart.